Since then I've learned that spirit decides whether they'll communicate and if you're feeling desperate it seems to shut them out. Through the years I've had many spirits come forward with messages for me and for others. What's amazing is their messages or guidance always seems to be validated. Maybe they know I need it. I'm getting better about doubting my interpretation, but the validations that follow are greatly appreciated.
If you believe you're receiving guidance but struggle with your interpretation my experience is the correct one is your first impression. Don't over analyze even if it doesn't make sense to you right away because it will when the time is right. Spirits must see the big picture and know when their guidance will benefit us most.